Seeking passion in their love life and wanting to enhance their sexual pleasure, both men and women harbour deep sexual fantasies. While some resemble the regular sex activities, others maybe wild in nature.
Some are even inspired by porn flicks. It’s not a bad idea to get down and dirty and introduce some adventure into your sex act by reenacting your sexual fantasies.
We’ve heard much about common sexual desires like making out on a secluded beach, having sex with an unknown stranger, seeing your partner undress in the light and duplicating porn stars etc. But have you ever heard of someone making love in a hot air balloon 1,000 feet above the ground or getting intimate with a fully clad partner in the elevator or storage room?
Dr. Chirta Bakshi, a relationship counselor explains, “Fantasies play a really crucial role in a couples’ sexual life as it can decide on their pleasure quotient. It has everything to make or break their sexual bonding. If fantasies are fulfilled, they can do magic and if not it they can insert trouble in the sexual paradise. The nature of a fantasy also matters because depending on his/her partner’s comfort levels -couples can make an effort to execute their fantasies together.”
Here are some never-heard before sexual fantasies that can rock your sex life:
1. Steamy romp using ice cubes : Couples who wish to move away from bedroom boredom can take their sexual act all the way to their washrooms, kitchens or balconies. Some couples love getting raunchy inside a deep freezer with frozen ice all around. “Once in summer, me and my wife decided to get n*ked and put cover up each other’s bodies with ice. As the ice melted it caused tantaslising sensations that turned us on. We also increased the lust quotient by licking and sucking the melting ice cubes from each others’ bodies. The heat in our bodies and the cool sexiness of the ice made us scream for more sex,” says Subodh Mishra, a 32-year-old advertising executive.
Hidden pleasure : Exchanging body heat with the cool sensations in your body is a great sex stimulant. It might be tough to bear the melting ice, but the process of heating up your partner is sure to keep you charged up.
2. Sexually aroused with a fully clad partner : It’s indeed exciting to witness your partner undressing slowly and arousing for a steamy act in bed. But it can be equally fun to slip between the sheets with a fully clad partner. “I always wanted to have sex with my boyfriend when we were fully clothed instead of routinely ripping off each others’ clothes. The hidden pleasure of finding your beau’s moan zones through their clothes adds an edge to the love-making,” says 27-year-old copy editor Pragya Sen.
Hidden pleasure : As you try to reach and find your partner’s trigger zones, the little hindrances here and there that come in your way, push you to act wilder and make your partner feel even more wanted. Opening his/her buttons or sliding your hands inside their clothes will add to the sexctasy.
3. Having sex in the trial room : This one figures high on the wish list of couples. “I find the urgency of making out in a public place makes me climax like never before. Me and my girlfriend once went clothes’ shopping at a unisex store and while trying out the clothes we started to kiss each other passionately. Soon, we had ripped each others’ clothes off and were wild. It was hard to keep our moaning down,” admits 21-year-old student Deepak Jha. So, tag along your lover for shopping and make sure to call them into the trial room for a secret sex soiree. “The quickie kind of sex is great to pep up one’s sexual appetite,” he adds.
Hidden pleasure : The fear of being caught at a forbidden location is what pushes couples to enjoy sex like never before. Watching their performance in the trial room mirror or keeping a check of who’s standing outside keeps them aroused for a gratifying act.
4. Making out in a hot air balloon : Nothing can be as adventurous as sex combined with an adventure sport. Couples seek pleasure while trying out things like bungee jumping, river rafting or trekking. But imagine flying 10,000 feet above the ground in a hot air balloon – there can be no better chance to get intimate with your partner. Such a fantasy might make you dish out the mullah, but the pleasure is surely worthwhile. “I once had sex with my fiance on a boat when we were out rafting. The cool winds, the open sky and the rocking of the boat made the sex unbelievable. Being n*ked amidst nature is a great thrill,” says 29-year-old teacher Madhavi Malani.
Hidden pleasure : It brings an immense gratification when you can view the whole world, but no one can see you as you indulge in a sexual session with your beloved.
5. Passion heat in a mud pond : Mud fights looks interesting on screen, but when real life couples jump into messy muddy pools with their lovers, it can certainly add to their sexual pleasure. It’s indeed a crazy fantasy to perform the act in a messy place, but the urge to get wild is what encourages couples to think out-of-the-box and enjoy sexual bliss. “There was some construction work going on in our compound that left the area extremely messy. Once after a vicious fight, we just got wild rolling in the mud and ripping off each others’ clothes. It was a stimulating experience to get so wild. So much better than a predictable sex on the bed with clean sheets. After the romp, we had a bath together and that got us lustful for more hot sex,” says 34-year-old lawyer Ram Chandra.
Hidden pleasure : As couples get all messy and dirty, they take extra pleasure in wiping the mud off from their partner’s body through their tender touches. These little gestures are a perfect way to stimulate their moan zones for a better performance.