In today’s frantic world, most couples claim either to be too tired for sex or not having enough time. But, there’s one way of turning your boring bedroom ritual into an exotic pleasure.
All you need is a sensual and soothing massage as a precursor for great sex.
“The significance of touch dates back to our very roots when we are in the womb, our mother’s holding us, followed by childhood games with parents and friends all use touch therapy. Later in life, we tend to duplicate this in our cherished relations. A sexual massage is an unusual way of maintaining closeness and can result in not only relaxation, but a keener sense of intimacy to both partners,” explains Ratna Wohra, a Hyderabad-based relationship expert.
Whether you are married, are into a long-term relationship or exploring a passionate evening with your newly found love, treating your beloved with a sensual massage helps in building trust and enjoying quality time together. What’s more? When done in a composed ambiance with affection flowing through your fingertips, a sensual massage helps heal even the most kaput relationships. We explore the magical world of massages…
Benefits of a sensual massage!
“People may find it hard to believe, but a simple back and head massage done with lukewarm coconut oil, has brought about a deeper connection than any solitaire, car, fancy dinner or vacation can ever achieve,” shares Deepshikha Roy, a 32-year-old boutique owner.
Undeniably, lovers who touch and touch share a much closer bond than those who don’t. The simple act of hand holding, regular cuddling outside the sexual ambit builds an eternal bond between two people. “Couples who habitually engage in non-sexual, physical contact miss their partners more when they are apart. Massage is the ultimate way of conveying your feelings to your partner. Mastering the methods and techniques of this intimate act improves your relationship. It doesn’t always have to lead to a sexual encounter, it can be a way to communicate your feelings for one another with the sense of touch we all need in our lives,” explains Dr. Rishabh Batra, a clinical psychologist.
Agrees Sidharth Makhija, a 37-year-old business consultant, “We all know that quality time is one of the building blocks of a lasting relationship. Sensual massage is pleasing on many levels. It ignites the flames of desire and allows you to express your love and devotion. I have read about the impacts of massages on the Internet, and ever since I have started practicing it, my intimate relationship is blossoming and flourishing like never before.”
Making way for great sex
Sensual massages are often a great way to express your feelings, without words, to your partner telling them just how much they mean to you. A sensual and sexual massage creates the perfect mood for a night of passion.
Rahul Jain, a 28-year-old lawyer, says, “A sexual massage actually tells your mind and body to relax. However, since it is a sexual massage, sexual tension is omnipresent, making for a night of great sex!”